By Estela Schnelle MS, RD

We are all looking for that magic solution to weight loss.  Whether we feel we have 5 or 50 pounds to lose, most of us have tried more than one “diet” with the hopes that it will be our last attempt.  I decided to start a series of articles on “How to lose Weight”… there will be several parts to this series… how many… who knows.  This can be anywhere from a 6 part series to a 12 part series.  There is so much information/education that I want to be sure all the RIGHT information is being delivered to you.

Sometimes The Harder We Try… The Harder We Fall!

No matter how hard we try, no matter how hard we want it… we always seem to fail.  The wrong way to approach this is by viewing it as a diet.  Permanent weight loss comes from permanent changes.  It can be hard work at times… especially if we eat for emotional reasons.  Change isn’t always easy.  It is VERY important to not view this as a diet.  I’m not going to tell you to eliminate dairy, give up carbs for two weeks, or give up your favorite foods.  What I will do is guide you in the right direction and help you set your own rules for your body, so you can live a healthy lifestyle, live your life, all while enjoying the foods you love.

DO NOT Set a Goal Weight!

Think about it… every time we decide to lose weight we set a goal.  We either set a goal of a certain “number” of pounds we want to lose, or we set of a goal of what we should weigh when the dieting is done.  This is absolutely the wrong route to take.  What we are doing is setting ourselves up for failure.  Here’s the deal… our body wants to be at a healthy weight for our body type, whatever that is.  An ideal healthy weight is different for each person.  Each body is different, each metabolism is different, each bone structure is different, and therefore, each body weight will be different.  So instead of trying to force ourselves to fit an “ideal weight” the focus should on making permanent healthy lifestyle changes.  As far your weight goes, a better goal or mentality to have is “your body will land where it wants to land.”  Start by making small changes, and your body will take care of the rest. This stops us from having an end to all the healthy changes we’ve made.  Instead of saying to yourself, “I want to weigh X number of pounds”, say to yourself “My body will land where it wants to land”.  As time goes on and we continue to change our lifestyle, our body will continue to change for the better.

Know Your Food Limits – Listen to Your Body

If we wanted, we can literally eat food all day long.  Does our body really need all that food?  Most likely NO!  One of the keys to reaching your Natural Weight is portion control.  Knowing how much food you really need and knowing your limits is very important.  Like I mentioned before, your body wants to be at a healthy weight for your body type, the problem is we stopped listening to our body.  If we only ate when we’re hungry and stop when we’re satisfied, we most likely wouldn’t have a weight problem.  The problem is we eat for so many reasons other than hunger.  Birthdays, family gatherings, social commitments, boredom, stress, loneliness… I could go on and on.  Losing weight takes more than just that.  It’s a combination of learning to identify when your hungry, eating the right food for you, and more importantly, eating the right amount of food. 

My next article will focus on how to identify your natural hunger.  Between now and then, try to identify your natural hunger.  What is your definition of hunger?  What are your views of weight loss?  I will be answering blog comments on Tuesday and Part 2 of the series will be posted on Wednesday.

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